If you agree to meet at a restaurant at , he will be there waiting at and not keep you waiting. Most Germans love to travel, and they have a lot of holidays compared to North Americans. Be forewarned; he’ll call because he promised he would. He may just be calling you to inform you that he doesn’t like you, and doesn’t want to see you again. (This has happened to dozens of friends of mine.)Germans are sticklers for being on time. There’s no playing “will he show, or not show” games with German men. You won’t have to worry about trying to convince the waiter that your date is only running an hour late.The most that any such “advice” can normally do is perhaps to spare an occasional bruised feeling that might result from a minor misunderstanding.And where German and American cultures are concerned, the potential for culturally-based misunderstandings is relatively negligible, so if two people aren’t open-minded enough to try to work through such insignificant differences, the relationship doesn’t stand a snowflake’s chance in hell of surviving anyway.” However for most people whose sweetheart is German, a foreigner, there are plenty of cultural nuances and minor difficulties resulting sometimes in an alienation. Let’s listen again to Lynne, the expert in human relations in general and in relations with a German man in particular.When he says he sees a future with you, he means it.On the other hand, if things aren’t going in the right direction, he will also be brutally honest about why he is ending it.Learning a few German dating tips, however, can help you avoid making dating blunders. Younger people tend to meet at bars and clubs, while the older generation tend to move within their circles of friends.
He may even do all the research and pre-trip planning as well like my husband did when we were dating.
This more for the fun of dating and socialising rather for long-term or serious relationships.
Usually German men do not plan to wed or have any sexual relations with these younger women.
This is one of the hardest lessons I’ve experienced being an expat in Germany.
You need a thick skin when it comes to dating German men.