SEE ALSO: How to Handle Flirtation without Being Led On Although texting and private messaging has become more of the norm, I suggest you ask directly if he would like to join you for coffee, a concert, a group activity or whatever.
Otherwise it becomes too easy to misread a response, non-response or delayed response.
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EDITOR'S NOTE: He Said-She Said is a biweekly advice column for singles featuring a question from a reader with responses from a male and female point of view. I find, unfortunately, that I am rarely in a situation where I am interested in someone, and on an even rarer occasion that he would be interested in me. He is godly, we have similar interests, and a great conversationalist - things I really appreciate.
An accomplished trainer and mentor, Kris has a heart to reach and grow leaders so they will in turn reach and grow others.I would find out what ministries he is serving in, what Sunday school or small group he attends.Now I am not saying be a stalker but am simply encouraging you to find out more information about him.While some men invite women to chase, others might find it too aggressive and be turned off. Well, because this guy may not know you exist, you do need to find ways to be together so you can learn more about each other.But please do not manipulate; instead, through prayer, allow God to line up opportunities.It may be something as simple as their smile or that they paid attention to you.